Sunday, March 30, 2014

The first hundred

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Last week, I clocked my first hundred kilometres in my new shoes. 

Before this, I never thought about the distances that I plodded - for all I know, I've done thirty or three hundred.  My focus was simply on getting out of bed and getting moving.  Recently though, I decided to start keeping a very simple log in my filofax, just for fun.  

My whole family thinks I'm nuts.  Wei texted, demanding to know who I was and what I had done with his sister.  And I'm not surprised.  I've always hated running.  I hate it every morning that I lace up my shoes and I hate it every breathless, achey moment.  But now, I feel weird without it. 

I slowly and painfully limped, walked, plodded and very occasionally sprinted my way to that first century mark and you better believe I was chanting "Fml, fml, fml," in my head the whole time.  In between, each time I timed myself on my 2.4km run, I felt like I was literally going to die. 

But my feet don't hurt anymore, and I'm probably the fittest I've been since my school days.  I feel much more comfortable climbing stairs and my clothes fit better.  

On balance, I suppose I call: worth it.   

Saturday, March 29, 2014

Chinese New Year


Before my grandparents died, Chinese New Year was my favourite holiday in the whole world.  It meant piling into our car for the 10-hour drive up to Terengganu where my grandmother would let us cook food on a huge bonfire fuelled by trash and gasoline.  She'd drag out old magazines, newspapers and even furniture and while it was burning and her back was turned, we scented the fire with stolen kaffir lime leaves. 

We camped in her garden and played with sparklers, and we even got our very own lion dance (my relatives own a shophouse and the lion stops by annually).  I loved lying on the sticky leather couches with my cousins and watching movies in a food coma.  Once, we sat through the entire Lord of the Rings trilogy just so we could make fun of the whole thing.  

Things change.  My cousins and I have grown up and we are scattered round the world now.  Chinese New Year no longer means gathering at the matriarch's house and paying our respects.  After missing a few years' worth of celebrations, however, the whole family decided to meet up in Singapore this time round and I was psyched beyond belief.  


We've never hosted the Chinese New Year celebrations before, so we decided to pull out all the stops.


The red and yellow plants are cockscombs.  I objected on the grounds that the colours were tacky, but my brother, Shen, pointed out that there is no Chinese New Year without tacky so we got two pots.  And yes, we had real live pussy willows in our house and they freakin' bloomed.  As fuzzy little buds, they're cute and all but very soon it looked like we had a sheaf of branches draped with hairy yellow caterpillars. 


After all my relatives (with the exception of my other brother, Wei) rolled up just in time for the reunion dinner, there was a shitload of feasting.  And I mean, a shitload.

I don't think we've ever fed this many people in our house before.


Best of all that night, we had yusheng.  My family is remarkably un-Chinese in some ways and I don't think we've lo-heid together in years.  Standing on top of a chair with my camera and watching everyone laugh, tease and fling food about, I was filled with an unspeakable happiness.

My cousins have grown up but they're as playful as ever and we had fun tossing the salad and shouting "hot stallion!  Hot stallion!" together. 


Chinese New Year morning was laidback, but just as enjoyable.  I don't know when we'll meet like this again and so drove my family to distraction, following them around with the camera and demanding that they pose for photos.  Luckily, my mum's two sisters are pretty sporting.


I made Shen and Yen pose like one of them was secretly disgusted with the other.  That face is too good for words.


I wore a red peplum top I'd snatched off the Forever21 discount racks two days before.  It cost me all of $13.  Now that, my friends, is what we call "huat".


The angbaos were exceptionally pretty this year (and not particularly "ang").


For lunch, we had Terengganu's famous fish keropok and spicy salad.  I'd forgotten what it was like to have a house filled with noise and love with relatives round every corner and I was enjoying it thoroughly.  Even without the infamous bonfire, New Year in Singapore didn't feel lonely or sterile.


We even had the time to curl up on the couch with a few good movies.  Any night with Blades of Glory is a good night for me!


It's not the same as when my grandmother and grandfather were around.  It'll likely never be again.  

But life necessitates both nostalgia and adaptation.  These are new traditions, loving and wonderful, and I'd like to think that wherever my grandparents are, they feel it and are proud.

Wednesday, March 26, 2014

Instant gratification


I've always wanted to rock a pair of big ass headphones and after my third, or fifth, pair of cheapo earbuds conked out yesterday, I marched to Popular and gave in.  After getting Mel's go ahead (the girl is a professional musician and knows these things), I bought a pair of hot pink Audio Technica whoppers for the princely sum of $48.

At first I felt a little guilty about not doing more research or sitting on it for longer, but then I put them on, and - oh!  I was locked in an achingly sweet cocoon of soaring opera music where no one could touch me, for just as long as I wanted to stay there. 

Sometimes, happiness is just that easy. 

Saturday, March 15, 2014

The cat garden


A couple of Saturdays ago, after shooting the sunrise, I met Jia Min so that we could check out Singapore's first cat cafe!  Neko no Niwa is a cute little hideaway in Clarke Quay and it's filled with more than a dozen cats.

After my experience in Japan, I was excited to try taking some more pictures and, in particular, practising on swiftly moving pets.


Well, they didn't move quite so swiftly.

All the same, it was interesting to see how the idea was implemented.  The cafe is a lot smaller than the one I'd visited, but the cats are clean and well cared for and the room is bright, airy and filled with quirky accents.  Most of the moggies were just chilling out and while they weren't especially friendly, they were quite happy to let people stroke them while they snoozed.


One very sweet striped fella climbed onto the table in front of me and I spent fifteen minutes entertaining him with a dangly toy.  I discovered that he loved to get his head rubbed and he leaned back and closed his eyes in ecstasy each time I pressed my knuckles to his forehead.

JM and I spent a nice, quiet hour with the felines before strolling over to Central, noshing on Japanese food and having a very interesting conversation about writing. 

Neko no Niwa is a potentially great place to hang out, but can pretty crowded on weekends.  I'd advocate a weekday morning, if you are so inclined.  

Here, have some cats!

Saturday, March 8, 2014

Japan: Yokohama Doll Museum

While on holiday in Japan, I kept a detailed series of notes in honour of Nanowrimo.  All posts about Japan comprise excerpts from my journals.


6th November, 2013

"Where the Baby Fish Aquarium made me feel giggly, the Yokohama Doll Museum makes me quiet.  Contemplative, even.  I wasn't expecting that.  I'm not even sure what to expect of a doll museum.  We only pick it because it sounds cool and is located in Motomachi Chukagai, a stroll away from Chinatown.


The sun is setting when we get there.  I don't know what I'm bracing myself to see - Barbies, a row of Cabbage Patch kids - but what it really is, is a love song to toys and artforms throughout the ages.


The museum, which is small but colourful and wonderfully organised, has dolls and toys from over a hundred different countries and from throughout the 19th century till now.  The introductory panel tells us that Yokohama has a soft spot for dolls because the dolls from overseas, the West in particular, came in to Japan through Yokohama and at the same time, on a kind of friendship exchange programme, dolls from Yokohama went out to the rest of the world.  This way, children from all over got to know each other vicariously.  The friendship dolls apparently travelled on a special passport that cost one cent.


The array of toys is quite astounding.  And every one has an individual identity and story.  The Japanese used to make horses out of tightly twisted and packed straw.  There are little reindeer on toothpick sized legs that peek out from forests of tiny trees.  The horses from later years look more like Inuit art with graphic colours and prints.  The Brazilian dolls are great fun, wearing fruit on their heads and real beaded necklaces of their own.  The Korean dolls are pretty and slim with exquisite makeup and costumes but there are also a couple of older people, a grandfather and grandmother, sitting together and laughing.


One set of animals groups together playing instruments and baying with endearingly human looks on their lupine faces.


We find one set of dolls from my father's homeland and... well, I have to say, I'm not sure what's going on, Pakistan.  You guys really need to lift your game.


The Mexican dolls have corn husk clothes, as do the dolls from one Scandinavian country and despite their monochromatic garb, both sets are deeply expressive.  The Native American dolls are filled with intricate and heartbreaking detail and I start to realise that they are all about different aspects of life.  An old woman carrying a bundle of twigs.  A man struggling to prop a tuna on his shoulders.  A hunter, coming home with the pelt of a deer in his hand.  A woman at a loom, or feeding a baby.  


We move further back into history with intricately made Japanese dolls and the "twice baked" Bisque dolls from France that started doll-making and owning crazes.  There is one Bisque doll, a Miss Mettie McRoberts, who has her own trunk of clothes.  In a separate room, we get to watch the doll-making process for a Japanese and Western doll.  The processes are similar, molding and carving and delicate, slow brush strokes to paint eyelashes and red lips.  It's absolutely fascinating.  

Some of the dolls are immediately, intuitively exquisite.  Some are strange, even a little grotesque but every single one of them was made lovingly for a reason, with a purpose in mind.  Someone molded their limbs and curled their hair.  Sewed them clothes.  Carved their faces and painted in eyes.  Some as religious effigies.  Some, simply to be loved.  I am suddenly deeply moved.  We walk, quietly, respectfully from case to case admiring the workmanship and the effort.  Maybe some time a long time ago, these were some child's dolls and drank from plastic teacups at plastic tea parties or comforted an insomniac ten-year-old. 

The most haunting part of the museum is a timeline that stretches over two floors of dolls over the years.  We walk down the line looking at pictures of people smiling with their dolls and cuddling them.  

My mum points at a picture of toddlers in my dad's year.  1942.  "They would all be in their seventies now," she says.  We stand and look at them for a little while longer.  


We decide to walk the three-something kilometres back to Minato Mirai, where we are staying.  My head is full of things I've seen, of kindness and passion and good-humour and things being treated with respect.  The sky is turning navy and all the little lights are winking in the harbour as runners, children, dogs head home.  We walk to feel the wind on our faces, to see the sliver of a crescent moon climb slowly over the skyline.  


My mum picks up a gingko leaf.  Holds it in both hands and shows me how it fans out.  We take a picture, throw the leaf to the wind.

A dog's bark carries on the air, over the slap of waves on the concrete of the canal.  A particularly big swash creates a fine spray and two people leaning on the railing at the wrong time scream.

My mother shoves her hands in her pockets, looks at me and says, "I'm so glad to be here."


PS  After our fake detox day, we are so starved we end up pigging out on a shitload of good ramen, gyoza and veggies.  Righteous!"


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